The Kotzker Rebbe, a great Chasidic leader once said:
"When I was young I thought I could change the world. However as I got older, I realised that would be too difficult, so I decided to change my city. After some time I changed my mind and became committed to affecting my neighbourhood, and then decided just to change my family. Now however I have decided just to change myself."
This statement is perplexing. The Rebbe was a leader with a wide circle of influence and broad responsibility. How could he just give up and indulge in the luxury of working only on himself at the exclusion of others?
The answer is simple but powerful. The Kotzker Rebbe did not abdicate his responsibility for one moment. However, he did eventually come to the conclusion that the best and most effective way to affect others is by changing himself. Becoming an example of morality, spiritual growth and good conduct, inspires and enthuses others to follow.
If we grow and improve, our families and neighborhoods will become different. Don't underestimate your own power - if you change yourself you can even change the world.