Question:

I like your questions and answers, but sometimes I think you miss the point. Not all questioners are looking for answers. Some are just looking for questions.

Many people ask questions about Judaism not because they want an answer, but really because they want to have a question. They like having an issue with Judaism, because that gives them an excuse not to engage in it. Often when someone says, "Why does G-d allow so much suffering?" or "Why is Judaism so sexist/racist/elitist/whatever?" they are not interested in hearing an answer. The question is just their defense, their reason for remaining ignorant and not thinking any further. It's really just a statement disguised as a question. The last thing they want is a rational explanation.

So with all your good comebacks, what would you respond to someone who asks a question, but doesn't really want an answer?

Answer:

Good Shabbos,
Rabbi Moss

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